Anything that can make my lips feel better?

I have a really bad habit of biting and picking at my lips. As many people may know, when you do that long enough, they get like the blistery scab-like-things on them.Well I was stupid enough to do that and give myself two of them. Is there anything that can make the swelling an what not go away? and a way to get me to stop picking at my lip? Thanks :)Anything that can make my lips feel better?
i have really chapped lips also that so i went to Tarte and picked up a vitamin E and sugar scrub lip balm,





one side is a smooth vitamin e glaze and on the other side on the vitamin e glaze is a part with brown sugar embedded on it so you put the vitamin e on, the turn it over and scrub away the dead skin with the sugar scrub and you can even lick the residue sugar off cuz its sugar....my lips have dramatically improved